5 Things I’ve learnt about my 20’s so far


So I just turned 24 over the weekend yayyyyy๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽŠ super thankful. Im excited and extremely empowered about the self defining, self finding and evolving person I’m becoming. Growing up in Jamaica I didnt have much but some of the most happiest times of my life. Everything was easy breezy layed back no worries……and then this happen 24! Like where did all that time go lol. Before you know it you’re adulting well for the most part lol ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜„.

No one has it figured out

So our social media lives are an illusion and no matter how picture perfect some may look, we all individually know the messy behind the scenes reality of our own lives. For some reason, we think everyone else is somehow immune to this ‘mess.’ Theyโ€™re not! Weโ€™re all human. Its okay to not to have it all figured out. Remember the grass isnt greener on the other side, its greener where ever you water it!

Circle got smaller

Cliche……yeah I know but until you are faced with it then you’ll realize. I use to think this is just some loosly used terms until this shit happen to me. All that negativity, petty immature behavior I’m not for it. If your ‘friends’ are not on the same path or similar mindset as you then its time to go. Girl bye ๐Ÿ‘‹

Educate Yourself

I have learnt so much in the pass year or so because of self teaching. We as black people are being told so much crap and for quite sometime I’ve been absorbing this information and running with it no questions asked. Ive had so many defining moments and when those moments happened I couldn’t believe what I use to think was true. So im basking in these moment I take out of my busy life to educate myself.


7/10 times your college major has nothing to do with your actual job in todays society. I studied education and yet here I am…..a ‘writer’


Enough with the clubbing. I now partake in alot of travelling…..spur the moment roadtrips my fav ๐Ÿ˜„.



17 thoughts on “5 Things I’ve learnt about my 20’s so far

  1. Happy birthday!! And yes to the random road trips. Took one for the first time last month and it was probably one of the most freeing things I’ve ever done!


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